I picked up my wickedly cool new glasses today. Black cat-eye with rhinestones and, of course, my hideously thick lenses. But damn. They are fucking cute and I feel sassy. I’m very fortunate that the place I got them will swap out the lenses for readers after I have my cataract surgeries. I’m counting down in that typical impatient way that I have. I’ve waited so long for this surgery and to be this close with no confirmation that insurance will cover it is teasingly horrible.
I made it home before dark this evening, but it was uncomfortably close. I had things I needed to do after work, so I took the chance. I don’t like taking those kinds of chances, though. Not anymore.
So here I am, sitting in the living room corner, with the only two windows in my front room, and I’m looking out into the dark and I feel vulnerable. Or maybe I feel limited. Or it’s a mix of the two and they fight it out for supremacy.
I think about this more now… What would I do if there were an emergency with my kiddo? I think I could get us to the hospital, but I know I’d be putting myself, my kiddo, and the other drivers at risk. But I’d do it because of course I would.
I don’t like to be out within an hour of the sun going down and this makes me feel slightly like a person in a horror movie. Everything takes on an edge when you’re aware that you’ve got that kind of flexible limitation, where the timing on when it will be too dark is kind of iffy as the days grow shorter.
Less than two weeks to go, though, and then I’ll see how I’m doing. Will it bring back late night travels to go get a drink or a snack or just take a drive? Speaking of driving – will I actually feel more like driving again?
The crickets are going to town out there. I can hear them, even with the doors closed and the windows tight. It sounds inviting and homey.
I love my new glasses and could have been happy in them if the surgery wasn’t going to happen, but as wonderful as they are, they can’t give me back the night. So I’m happy and counting down for the surgery.
Moonfire