I was feeling pretty awful yesterday. After work I swapped out the water for our flock, which (by the way) is rough when it’s cold out. My hands were like ice, even with gloves on. My hose is leaking, so I got wet, but I got it all done. Then I stood out there, bundled up in hat, sweater, coat, gloves, winter boots, etc., and I watched the birds. Man I love them. They are so funny and have so much personality.
After I got them all put up in their houses, I hauled my very tired ass off to the grocery store. I picked up foods that we can actually eat in our household – note: this is a challenge since oldest is lactose intolerant, big time – and then I got home and made the kids put the groceries away. Spicy Ginger had called me while I was at the store and told me to come over, so I left the kids to their own devices, kept my boots on, and walked across the driveway to his house. His smile was what I needed most. I got leftover pizza and a ginger ale plus lots of Spicy Ginger time. And that’s what it took. My heart just needed that comfort.
Admittedly, the sex helped, too!
I did take a look at things that are posted for other state jobs, as well as in our area. The sad fact is that my hourly salary is too high to find something else comparable. Wages here suck. Cost of living sucks. And options? They really don’t exist. Over the course of the next year or two, maybe 2-3 jobs might open up for which I would be qualified and which might pay in the range I need.
So I am trying to just face the fact that I am nicely pinned in my current place. I do still count the positives, even if my post yesterday doesn’t reflect that. But I know that sooner or later my patience with the dynamic with my boss will wear thin. Actually, I would correct that statement – it has already worn thin. But as with other things that I have had to bear, I will smile and nod and just do the work. I will ignore that frustration. I don’t really think I have any other choices. I’ve learned already that speaking up does me no good.
I will be grateful for Spicy Ginger and his delicious self. I will be grateful for my kids both being safe. I will be grateful for oldest getting another promotion, which puts her one step closer to earning a better living so she can support herself. I will be very grateful for my mum and for youngest. They are relatively healthy and the project at mum’s place is continuing to improve.
The rest? Well, I suppose I’ll take it day by day. If I can spare a little money, I think I may hunt for a small wooden piece of furniture to refinish. That has become my new favorite thing to do, so I might was well feed my need for creativity.
And on that note, back to work I go.
Moonfire